I WISH I HAD A MAGIC WAND
In society, โฃ
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We tell each other things like โ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ด๐ฆ๐ณ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ต๐ต๐ฆ๐ณโโฃ
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Orโฃ
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Itโs โ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ง๐ข๐ถ๐ญ๐ตโโฃ
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But I actually think that gives us a false sense of entitlementโฆโฃ
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Like someone is coming to save usโฆโฃ
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It strips us of โ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ช๐ตโโฃ
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When the actual fact is, โฃ
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๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐ ๐๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ญ๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐๐ญ๐โฃ
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And that sounds harsh, but itโs not meant harshlyโฃ
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I thought I deserved better, โฃ
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And that my โ๐ด๐ต๐ถ๐ค๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ด๐ดโ was not my fault, โฃ
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Truth is, it was my faultโฃ
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Because I waited for someone to help me, โฃ
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Rather than take control, โฃ
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I waited until I hit rock bottom to actโฃ
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I hoped for things to get better, โฃ
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Nothing at all changed until I did something about itโฆโฃ
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๐๐จ, ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฌ๐ก ๐ ๐ก๐๐ ๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ ๐ข๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐, โฃ
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Iโd wave it over you and say,โฃ
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โI wish for you to realise just what you can do if you start nowโโฃ
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And I mean, GO ALL IN! โฃ
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Not this toe-dipping thing, โฃ
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Like, ALL IN! โฃ
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Completely SCRAP your current environment, โฃ
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And decide to love yourself, so you can fully love others,โฃ
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Coaching is emotionally hard at times, โฃ
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Because you just want everyone to win, โฃ
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But you canโt win it for themโฆ